Couplehood is Healing

What do you do when an unexpected life change happens just as you are adjusting to a new relationship? A recent advice column of mine addresses the question of how you manage a cancer diagnosis while trying to maintain the fun and carefree feelings of a new relationship. Short answer? You don't. But that's not really cause to complain. You may have to mourn the "what ifs," but there is a silver lining when your relationship is tested by real life - you get to see if you can handle it. Read the whole story here.