Relationship Rituals

What’s your relationship ritual? It can be as simple as kissing hello when you come home after work, or as complex as organizing a weekly date night, with babysitters and a new venue each time. The point is that when we commit to a regular activity we are showing our partner that s/he is worth that regularly-scheduled attention. It’s no secret that kids love routines (try feeding a toddler a different-shaped pretzel than the one he’s used to and you may get my point). Routines make kids feel safe, loved, and are an ongoing reminder that they are being cared for. Adults really are no different. Having one or two small rituals that you never compromise demonstrates – both consciously and subconsciously – your interest and love for another person.